Booking a session

[Lisal]

Saw this on Twitter/X this morning from a domme

‘I’ll never understand this trend of wanting to book an appointment with us thru social media, when we all have websites, some of us even multiple sites. What happens if you book thru twitter DM, pay, get DM’d the details, and a week or even a day before your session our Twitter account is suspended and you can’t get into the info - what do you do then? Whose fault is it that you miss your appointment and lose your money?

How many restaurants will let you order your meal directly thru Twitter?

Can you book your car in for a service here?

Can you arrange a flight or Eurostar ticket, or Uber taxi trip thru here?

Can you buy your groceries here?

No, you can’t, you have to click on a link and use an external website/app. Or you go to each of their respective websites and order or book through there…

So why are so many guys so intent to try to book an appointment (which is usually quite an expense) thru Twitter here and risk losing it all, rather than using the proper channels…?

It’s not easier to do that here, you’ve just convinced yourself it is bcos it feels like you have less steps to take to keep yourself, your identity, and your investment (money) safe. But if you think about it, it’s not less steps, and it’s not safe at all! And losing all that info before your appointment is really not convenient, either.

Don’t think for moment your DMs are safe…. Especially not here.’

I recognise I’m an old git but it wouldn’t cross my mind to book like that.

As I’ve been with the same person for a long time I haven’t had to book with a new domme for ages

We have sessions in the diary a long way ahead

How do you arrange yours?

[geordiesouth]

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[Slutty Rimmer]

Originally Posted by Lisal

Saw this on Twitter/X this morning from a domme

‘I’ll never understand this trend of wanting to book an appointment with us thru social media, when we all have websites, some of us even multiple sites. What happens if you book thru twitter DM, pay, get DM’d the details, and a week or even a day before your session our Twitter account is suspended and you can’t get into the info - what do you do then? Whose fault is it that you miss your appointment and lose your money?

How many restaurants will let you order your meal directly thru Twitter?

Can you book your car in for a service here?

Can you arrange a flight or Eurostar ticket, or Uber taxi trip thru here?

Can you buy your groceries here?

No, you can’t, you have to click on a link and use an external website/app. Or you go to each of their respective websites and order or book through there…

So why are so many guys so intent to try to book an appointment (which is usually quite an expense) thru Twitter here and risk losing it all, rather than using the proper channels…?

It’s not easier to do that here, you’ve just convinced yourself it is bcos it feels like you have less steps to take to keep yourself, your identity, and your investment (money) safe. But if you think about it, it’s not less steps, and it’s not safe at all! And losing all that info before your appointment is really not convenient, either.

Don’t think for moment your DMs are safe…. Especially not here.’

I recognise I’m an old git but it wouldn’t cross my mind to book like that.

As I’ve been with the same person for a long time I haven’t had to book with a new domme for ages

We have sessions in the diary a long way ahead

How do you arrange yours?

Speckled Jim coo’d his last coo a long time ago and I have never since had the heart to carry on in the professional scene without my faithful messenger pigeon of old.

He was tasty in the pie though, so all’s well that ends well !

That post by the dominatrix does rather align her with just services and commodities which I always understood such professional ladies objected to.

Maybe not, maybe they are just a service provider like any other and market forces and value for money and revolving door ‘book-a-whip’ applies equally. Perhaps we have been overly sensitive and too polite.

Kind Regards,
Rimmer.

[Lisal]

Can’t say I read it that way Slutty

Seemed more like a genuine attempt to protect the punters themselves

Lady concerned is a well known domme who does quite a bit around the scene and has done so for quite a while

[Slutty Rimmer]

Originally Posted by Lisal

Can’t say I read it that way Slutty

Seemed more like a genuine attempt to protect the punters themselves

Lady concerned is a well known domme who does quite a bit around the scene and has done so for quite a while

Oh yes, I read it similarly as a security concern, but thought the comparisons made revealed an honesty which previously has been denied on here and elsewhere. Quite refreshing for it.

On an aside: I read recently an article about a ‘professional’ fin-dom who took total control of her clients’ bank accounts and finances (for a hefty cut). It made out she was more an amateur financial advisor who enforced her advice with domination such that they both benefited. It made me wonder what happens if she got knocked down by a bus whilst popping out to buy a packet of Cheesy Nik-Naks and a can of Fanta for lunch. What then for their handed over finances ?

…and who gets the Nik-Naks and the Fanta ?

Kind Regards,
Rimmer.