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Old 19-11-2017, 17:18   #21
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I agree Mistress Adore. You would be truthful and tell anyone who asked what your age was. Let’s face it. Nobody would believe you.
No they would come on here and say gee she must be at least 10 years older
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Old 20-11-2017, 15:09   #22
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I've never lied about My age (having said that, I am only 29!), however what is most interesting about this thread is that I personally have found that I am becoming more sought after the older I get.

Lying about my age seems a little pointless considering that... I would hazard a guess that older Dommes in their 30's/40's are much more popular than younger Dommes in their 20's. Whilst not necessarily true, older Dommes may be seen as being inherently more experienced, plus I've known a few submissives who find the idea of submitting to someone very young a little 'squicky'... A case of different strokes I guess
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Old 20-11-2017, 16:04   #23
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I've never lied about My age (having said that, I am only 29!), however what is most interesting about this thread is that I personally have found that I am becoming more sought after the older I get.

Lying about my age seems a little pointless considering that... I would hazard a guess that older Dommes in their 30's/40's are much more popular than younger Dommes in their 20's. Whilst not necessarily true, older Dommes may be seen as being inherently more experienced, plus I've known a few submissives who find the idea of submitting to someone very young a little 'squicky'... A case of different strokes I guess
I'm not quite sure what 'squicky' means* but I agree wholeheartedly. I can well imagine your client base will expand as you mature ever onwards.

There was an advert on another site by a Mistress of some recent minor TV fame, and she openly and honestly declared herself to be 66, and very appealing she appeared for it. For my money a Mistress just gets better and more interesting as she matures and develops. Better still if a lady comes to the profession late after having a career elsewhere. Such multi-dimensional women are an intriguing experience worthy of continued devotion.

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* Is it a sort of Lewis Carroll portmanteau word ? Somewhere between 'squeamish' and 'icky' ?
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Old 21-11-2017, 07:49   #24
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No it’s a blend of Sqeeky and icky.

It’s a phenomenon practiced by the younger generation.
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I have had some problems with Photoshop images, would rather see a Mistress who is more mature confident to just show the way she is. that is why i enjoyed sessions with a Lady up in Preston she does not feel the need to pretend she is not mature and has a unique look and is a very nice person, no bs involved no deceit.
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Old 28-11-2017, 22:57   #26
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You boys appear to be right, Google has kindly informed Me it originated in the Usenet Forum alt.sex.bondage in the 1990's and is a portmanteu of 'squeamish' and 'icky'.

I personally heard it somewhere (probably a Dan Savage podcast years ago as a guess) as the accepted antonym for 'kink', and have used it ever since then.
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As above, it's not about age for me. But if there is a noticeable 'variation' between what is advertised and what is in the playspace, then it inevitably calls into question the honesty of the practicioner.
That is it. I have recently had two sessions abroad, and in both cases the pictures were quite out-of-date. In the first one, I knew that because I have sessioned there previously and knew what to expect. In the second one it came quite as a shock. The main picture seemed out by some 20 years, and another one must have been taken 30 years ago.

Both sessions were conduced in multi-mistress establishments. In the second case I am tempted to write to point out that deceit damages the House's reputation as well as its mistresses.

(if anyone says looks should not be important then I suggest not including any pictures of the mistress at all)
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I saw an escort profile, where the lady advertising. Said she only received clients under 50 years of age.

I suppose you’ve got to accept what her preference is of course.
I wonder how many unscrupulous sorts sneaked in saying they were 49 and were really 52.
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That is it. I have recently had two sessions abroad, and in both cases the pictures were quite out-of-date. In the first one, I knew that because I have sessioned there previously and knew what to expect. In the second one it came quite as a shock. The main picture seemed out by some 20 years, and another one must have been taken 30 years ago.

Both sessions were conduced in multi-mistress establishments. In the second case I am tempted to write to point out that deceit damages the House's reputation as well as its mistresses.

(if anyone says looks should not be important then I suggest not including any pictures of the mistress at all)
For the record, I did write to the House Headmistress, received an apology, and the out-of-date photos of the domme I visited last year have been removed. So I am more likely to return there. I think if I had seen the current, more accurate photos I might still have sessioned with her, but the 'deceit' means I will have to find another mistress if I do go back.
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I've never lied about My age (having said that, I am only 29!), however what is most interesting about this thread is that I personally have found that I am becoming more sought after the older I get.

Lying about my age seems a little pointless considering that... I would hazard a guess that older Dommes in their 30's/40's are much more popular than younger Dommes in their 20's. Whilst not necessarily true, older Dommes may be seen as being inherently more experienced, plus I've known a few submissives who find the idea of submitting to someone very young a little 'squicky'... A case of different strokes I guess
I suspect very late 20s and 30s might be the most popular age. It has crossover appeal from those seeking the young and beautiful to the more grown up and sophisticated. In making these comments, let me add that women in their 20s can be very sophisticated and those in their 30s are often beautiful. I’m just commenting on potential preconceptions.

I’ve found it makes no difference at all. My two best experiences (by a distance) have variously been with a Mistress in her 50s who would just blend in with other women of her age; and a young, mid 20s stunningly beautiful woman.

But in both cases they had something that I found very special which made the D/s seem much more natural, less of a role play. In different ways I adored them both.
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