No gift is ever given freely.

[Slutty Rimmer]

Or easily.

My lady friend has a special birthday coming up soon and I want to give her something a bit special and a bit meaninglful by way of gratitude for all she has given me over recent times.

The present needs to be unique, fun, interesting, not lovey or romantic, and not too expensive (no more than the cost of a session).

...?

...like a lot of men I am hopeless at thinking of gift ideas. It never ceases to bemuse me how some women can be genuinely pleased to receive what I consider naff tacky crap which requires no thought and little originality*. You know the sort of things, ‘essential’ bath oils, scented candles, a nice piece of Double Gloucester, ugly jewellery, face scrubs containing real tears of laughter from Tibetan monks, bubble bath, a crate of Newcastle Brown Ale etc.

Any ideas ?

The best I can think of at present is to offer her my genuine real deal chastity. She has mentioned this previously in passing, for both myself and her partner, and it occurs to me I could lock myself up and then post both keys on a nice necklace along with her card. I have never fully 100% committed to real chastity so it would be an honest cockfelt gift, not easily given. It would at least be amusing and original and unexpected. Something she could play with, being the open-minded hot bossy bitch that she is.

Or is that also a bit tacky and cheap ? What have other people given as gifts ?

Help ! I am running out of time, and ideas.

Maybe I should just stick with bubble-bath from TK Maxx ? Best not overdo the emotion and sentiment, play it straight down the line.

Kind Regards,
The Fireman.

* I feel cynical giving somebody a gift which I know they will like but which I myself think is crap. It just seems wrong and doesn’t sit easy with me. Better I believe to either not bother or to find a gift which they will like and I am also proud to give. It means more and retains a healthy symmetry of connection, which is in itself worthy and admirable.

Much better, but much harder...or softer in the case of my chastity !!

[geordiesouth]

Not knowing your bossy bitch or her partner, this is a difficult one.

But as you say. Giving yourself up to chastity because you have both spoken about it previously. Might just be the heartfelt gift you want her to have.

Failing that. A Champneys gift token.
What girl doesn’t like been pampered for a day or two.

Or....... this is probably stretching things a tad.
She could sit in with me as I go round the Nurburgring.

[Lisal]

As gs says without knowing her it's difficult.

Herself has a big birthday next year. I'll probably buy her a decent bottle of wine and a funny card. But that's us and our relationship and she would be more than happy with just a card. As the chastity has been something you've discussed before and relates to the two (three?) of you then sounds like a plan. Amusing is always good I find!

[jo nep]

I would prefer to get something meaningful and wanted by my PD. We talk, obviously, and she may mention something that she likes, if I can I will get it. My Mistress has many followers bearing gifts and I think it sensible to buy what she actually wants. I know there is no surprise there but I will occasionally bring a nice bottle of wine or bunch of flowers.

[Slutty Rimmer]

Originally Posted by jo nep

I would prefer to get something meaningful and wanted by my PD. We talk, obviously, and she may mention something that she likes, if I can I will get it. My Mistress has many followers bearing gifts and I think it sensible to buy what she actually wants. I know there is no surprise there but I will occasionally bring a nice bottle of wine or bunch of flowers.

Yes, a nice bottle of wine seems a popular gift. The difficulty is that I have problems with it because I usually take one along as a session gift anyway, and also I am increasingly reluctant to encourage boozing. Less is definitely more with alcohol if we want to keep our shape, health, and mental acuity. On the advice of a professional health Nasty people I have drastically reduced my intake, and sorry to report that it is a revelation. Not since pre-student days have I had such a spring in my step. The fine wine tastes even finer when rationed rather than over-indulged.

Hence, I have decided on a three stage chastity gift to be phased in over the next few weeks, culminating in the payment of a suitable gift ransom for c*ck release. I can guess one of the (non monetary) things She will be demanding of me*.

Kind Regards,
The Denied Fireman.

* See thread started by Ogden ! Her pleasure cums first, which is vey much my pleasure.

[geordiesouth]

I personally think that’s a great gift idea Slutty.
A bottle of wine or flowers is always the easy option no matter how good a claret
it is.

I’m looking forward to updates as the weeks progress.
I shall be looking at it from the point of view of “Frustration...... does it affect your posting abilities”

[Slutty Rimmer]

Originally Posted by geordiesouth

I personally think that’s a great gift idea Slutty.
A bottle of wine or flowers is always the easy option no matter how good a claret
it is.

I’m looking forward to updates as the weeks progress.
I shall be looking at it from the point of view of “Frustration...... does it affect your posting abilities”

Currently my denial is being denied thanks to the delayed post. My new chastity device was meant to be delivered this past week but is yet to arrive. I dare not just clap myself in cock prison as soon as it lands on the doormat and then post both keys to her, for fear of the keys going astray and/or the device becoming unwearable.

The staged incarceration will begin by putting it through it’s paces with a few days of rigorous c-trials (cock trials) to ensure the device is wearable without any problems. Cycling will be an interesting activity even without lycra shorts ! Also hygiene and shaving will be of concern. The device has a long urethral tube so ‘pull out’ will not be possible, but this will require careful attention to prevent any problems.

Once it has passed the c-trials the first commissioning stage shall commence when I post one of the keys to her along with one of those little portable key safes. She can lock the key into the safe and set and scramble the combination before returning to me. This will act as an emergency sealed release, and my escape should (in theory) only be a text away if suddenly needed. Upon receipt of the key safe the primary key can then be put on a sexy silver chain and sent to her. The key can no doubt then be used to torment me with pictures and teasing demands.

A few years ago I struck up a relationship with a hot mature lady on e-bay and we agreed for her to hold my chastity key and then for her to subtly include the key in an auction for some vanilla item such as second-hand lingerie or pantyhose. The auction pictures would show her wearing the item but (as if that wasn’t tormenting enough !) also discreetly include the key on a necklace or ankle chain, and I would have had to be alert to the auction and then compete with her stable of regular followers to outbid them for my key. They would be bidding for her lingerie whilst I would be bidding for my release. Unfortunately though our relationship fell through before we got to play this out.

It is still a fantasy of mine which I want to make real one day. Maybe the time for a bit of ‘public’ chastity play* has finally cum.

We shall see.

Kind Regards,
The Fireman.

* It does not have to be an e-Bay auction. The key could be left somewhere public for me to retrieve. Perhaps secreted on the shelf in a book shop...in the ‘women’s studies’ section. How mad would that be** ??? The possibilities are limited only to our imagination.

Calm down my beating c*ck ! I am getting way ahead of myself. C-trials first.

I love everything about the concept of keys and locks and codes and communication, both physical and virtual. They are my passion, my education, my profession, and they turn me on big timey-timey.

** Or just insist I buy and read an ‘improving’ book of her choosing, upon which the key is released only after correctly answering questions on the text. Brainwashing through cocklocking...mind control by cock control. What a chaste oddity I would be to cum.

Cock control to major slut.
Mind control to major slut.
Take your viagra pllls,
and snap your cage shut...

[geordiesouth]

Let’s hope no “Major Tom” complications then.

Not hacking the thread too much. But I have had a long held fantasy for being in a cuckold/chastity type relationship. It’s a pure fantasy though and completely not liveable, so it will forever be dreams in my loins.
But I do love chastity type ideals...... me being the passive.

Which at the moment is contrary to my current relationship.

Funny thing this life stuff.

[Lisal]

Wr've talked about trying it - especially given my propensity for "forgetting" certain between session instructions.

One of my worries was getting in contact if there was an emergency. I love her to bits but she is inclined to forget her phone, leave it in her gym bag/boot of the car, be in a no signal zone, not hear it because it's in her bag when she is at lunch etc etc

[Slutty Rimmer]

Originally Posted by Lisal

Wr've talked about trying it - especially given my propensity for "forgetting" certain between session instructions.

One of my worries was getting in contact if there was an emergency. I love her to bits but she is inclined to forget her phone, leave it in her gym bag/boot of the car, be in a no signal zone, not hear it because it's in her bag when she is at lunch etc etc

Yes, but isn’t that scary loss of control necessary for the excitement ?

Even so, I struggle to think of many emergencies that would require instantaneous release*. The vagaries of communication may introduce an uncertainty for a few hours or a day, but that is all part of the fun.

We communicate even when one of us is abroad on holiday, so a combination key release should always be no more than a day away. She is a thoroughly modern lady and is never without her mobile. Less so me.

Kind Regards,
The Fireman.

* I suppose being run over by a bus would be embaressing when the A&E nurses have to not only remove my stained underpants but then also need to light up the oxyacetylene cutter to set free my old fella.

In which case, if I can’t step out of the path of the bus then I’ll just get texting pronto before it hits me.

https://youtu.be/iObSYqJ7Ggs

I’m sorry Mrs Rimmer, your son is in a terrible way...oh, and by the way, that chastity cage was a right f*cker to cut free.