Weird s""t

[Lisal]

Me and her have been sessioning for too many years to remember. Over that time we've added in a weird mix of stuff - clothes, toys, role play etc. From the outside looking in it's a really strange conglomeration of (BDSM) genres

I said that to her today and she just laughed and said it was normal.

But raises the question of how many of us do "traditional"BDSM or are we a bit "off the wall?

Oh I think I stopped doing traditional BDSM quite a while ago

[jo nep]

Originally Posted by Lisal

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But raises the question of how many of us do "traditional"BDSM or are we a bit "off the wall?

We only practice traditional vanilla BDSM. A little rope and that's it. None of this rubber stuff or suspensions or scrotum sewing or water sports or catheterisation or pegging or enema's or solitary confinements ... none of that stuff!

[Lisal]

Just realised the thread title was all wrong.

Changed it now. Subspace and all that!

[Slutty Rimmer]

...you don’t want to start from here.

Originally Posted by Lisal

Me and her have been sessioning for too many years to remember. Over that time we've added in a weird mix of stuff - clothes, toys, role play etc. From the outside looking in it's a really strange conglomeration of (BDSM) genres

I said that to her today and she just laughed and said it was normal.

But raises the question of how many of us do "traditional"BDSM or are we a bit "off the wall?

A good consideration.

I gave up on all that noun defined playing-by-numbers ‘list’ stuff a long time ago. Which is why most ‘professional’ Mistresses rarely appeal any more.

It feels much easier to now play how we want without bothering about definitions. She is largely in charge with a few suggestive nudges permitted from myself, and we call it nothing more resolving than ‘kinky-slutty stuff’. Weird sh*t would suffice just as well though. It is only the unique individuality of ‘her’ which makes this possible. If she folded then so would I.

Looking back I suppose I had to go through the limiting apprenticeship of nouns in order to reach and appreciate this free space beyond. Others may know of a more direct route but I never saw the signposts. If I had to make the journey again I wouldn’t set off from where I started.

Kind Regards,
The Fireman.

[geordiesouth]

A good enough descriptive Slutty.

I guess we all started off from somewhere. Even if it was from the wrong place.

I myself am a BDSM aficionado.
Sticking rigidly to the rule of thumb and never crossing the boundaries of tradition and etiquette.

It’s best that way otherwise I have a propensity to go off track and become someone or something I don’t want to be.

Just like yesterday in fact when I said to me mistress,
“When I get free I’m going to do this to you, see how you bloody like it”