Denial & Chastity.....

[MistressRouge]

I usually ask that some have a period of abstinence prior to session, this in itself was for My own benefit. Abstinence can be quite effective prior to sessions, for some. Having the denial become part of the session.

Does Chastity, also has an interest for you? Also wank bans, and wank rotas, that allow an orgasm on a certain day or time?

What are you views on abstinence before session?

Has you Mistress ever informed you to?

Would you like or dislike it?

[mikeyports]

Chastity has allways been a fantasy and mind f**k for me and have tried it but by undercarage would never play ball so to speck.

Tried both cbs and both would just fall of after a few days.

And abstinence I just dont have the will power(not scared to admit it)

[Mistress Susannah]

Yes, totally - it's a very special headspace. I blogged about it a little while ago: Chastity

To answer a part of your question that isn't answered in my blog.... wank rotas or having a ban when they're not sure when they will be allowed to orgasm are great too! Very often their orgasm is completely controlled by my whim - how my day has been or what's happening in my life. That's pretty awesome!

[subtle]

Chastity can paradoxically become a very fulfilling experience. I remember once practically begging a Domme not to come, because I was happy as I was.

A very strange kind of headspace - influencing your emotions & thoughts quite profoundly, even if you're simultaneously aware that this is exactly what it's doing...

[balacano]

.....i deny myself any orgasm exactly one week prior to a session....this heightens the tension and produces quite a large bit of will power on my part!

....so far ive never had an "instruction" by a Mistress on this subject,but i find the prospect incredibly exciting,so perhaps i should suggest this during my next session.

....sadly,real chastity for me,using a device,would not be a realistic option in everyday life.

[mikeyports]

What is the latest Chastity device?

[Property of MJDS]

Over the last few months Mistress has been restricting my masturbation to when She decides I've earned it and this has certainly has caused a massive increase in both my submissiveness and my desire to session.

To have this, at times, near insane need to masturbate and yet have no control to make it happen or any idea of when it might be allowed. It is quite a headspace, the feeling of being subject to Her whim is like nothing else.

[Will89]

Chastity devices have always interested me but have never had the chance to experiment with one.
The last mistress I saw instructed me not to masturbate for 48hours prior to the session. It was such a mind game and I absolutely loved it. Every time I thought about masturbating, the thought of the session would excite me more. I just found the hold the mistress had over me fascinating, definitely can't wait until being told again.

[markasub]

I would certainly do it if instructed. The trouble is, when the session got under way, I would explode at the first touch.... All very messy!!

[jon123]

Originally Posted by Will89

Chastity devices have always interested me but have never had the chance to experiment with one.
The last mistress I saw instructed me not to masturbate for 48hours prior to the session. It was such a mind game and I absolutely loved it. Every time I thought about masturbating, the thought of the session would excite me more. I just found the hold the mistress had over me fascinating, definitely can't wait until being told again.

Yes, I also had my instructions (which I honestly followed). A chastity device is not necessary if we can be trusted not to tell a lie.