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Old 15-01-2019, 19:01   #21
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Now if you are summoned by the same mistress and you haven't paid anything just because she fancies using you that day, are you still in control?
Mistress Esme.... stopt talking like that. I haven’t recovered from your last post yet
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Old 16-01-2019, 00:13   #22
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Now if you are summoned by the same mistress and you haven't paid anything just because she fancies using you that day, are you still in control?
Errr .... no I suppose not. That has never happened to me, so I have not had to confront that issue.

I still think that - on the whole, in general, by and large, what I said applies.

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Does walking out, forgetting to pay count. ?
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Old 16-01-2019, 23:00   #24
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What about when you have paid for a certain amount of time but you realise you have gone over that because the Mistress wanted to keep playing?

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Errr .... no I suppose not. That has never happened to me, so I have not had to confront that issue.

I still think that - on the whole, in general, by and large, what I said applies.

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What about when you have paid for a certain amount of time but you realise you have gone over that because the Mistress wanted to keep playing?
Can that be seen as quid pro quo for the gifts brought to session or items purchased from a wish list that are ‘greatfully received and appreciated’ ?

How inclined would a lady be to loosen a bit around the edges if a client turned up with the fee, the whole fee, and nothing but the fee ?

I have always thought it a risky thing to accept unreciprocated gifts.

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What about when you have paid for a certain amount of time but you realise you have gone over that because the Mistress wanted to keep playing?
I would take it that we were by then BOTH in what I would consider a consensual playtime and that the commercial dynamic would cease to apply.

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I would be thinking “Bugger, I’m going to miss me bus”
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Old 17-01-2019, 12:47   #28
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I usually have the fee and nothing but the fee and still go over. If I am having fun I am having fun. A gift won't change that.

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Can that be seen as quid pro quo for the gifts brought to session or items purchased from a wish list that are ‘greatfully received and appreciated’ ?

How inclined would a lady be to loosen a bit around the edges if a client turned up with the fee, the whole fee, and nothing but the fee ?

I have always thought it a risky thing to accept unreciprocated gifts.

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Has this never happened to you or anyone else here?

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So who is in control?

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