18-06-2013, 15:14 | #21 | |
Member
Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Bradford
Posts: 204
Reputation: 54
|
Quote:
I know some Mistresses only do a few sessions a week (my Mistress being one) but take into account emails, admin, website admin, telephone calls, texts, cleaning, purchasing and you soon have 40 plus hours per week. Sessioning is only a part of the job. |
|
18-06-2013, 17:04 | #22 | |
Moderator
Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 1,730
Reputation: 104
|
Quote:
Hi Jon, thank you for your very kind comments 1. I do some online domination but it is usually with guys i do see, even if not as often as they would like. Just online doesn't work to well for me as i like to get to know my guys, look into their eyes and see their reactions to my words. There is also the added part that if a task isn't done to my expectations there is no real effective punishment that would work online for me. 2. Yes i have held sessions in London and Birmingham when i have been there and intend to hold some in Brighton if all goes to plan in late July, early August. 3. The reason you go weak at the knees, is very simple, you are one of the few that get me, im sure if you have read my site you will remember the part where i say this site will not suit everyone, but a few, a small few will get it, and a journey may begin. That is the reaction i wanted those who suit me to have, when they read my words. Maybe the darker side attracts you more because you like the idea of it, maybe because it is a different side to me, more aloof, less caring, much more extreme. The reason i made that site was because i spend a lot of time on and with my guys, either online, via phone,text or inside or outside of session. The darker side attracts guys who do not want that level of interaction, they know what they want, are experienced enough to know the risks involved and want someone who will play to that level in as safe way possible. I am the only one in the North East that plays to this level, so added it and had a new site made dedicated to it, to show not all my play is as fluffy as i may seem . Hope this explains what you were asking |
|
18-06-2013, 17:39 | #23 | |
Member
Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 793
Reputation: 165
|
Quote:
Maybe someone else has experience? |
|
18-06-2013, 18:13 | #24 | |
Moderator
Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 1,730
Reputation: 104
|
Quote:
Other tasks can come out of general chatting, you would be amazed just how much you lot give us without knowing |
|
19-06-2013, 09:29 | #25 | |
Member
Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 218
Reputation: 168
|
Quote:
I've found through experience that coming back from a holiday, especially if it's been for more than a week (try coming back from a month's holiday!) that it can take me a few days to get back into my swing if I don't plan it. So now I plan that my first few sessions are long ones with long standing regular gents who I know I will just feed off their reactions and get fired up from the interaction. This helps no end when getting back in the mood. |
|
20-06-2013, 14:56 | #26 | |
Member
Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 793
Reputation: 165
|
Quote:
Of course like all good arguments it can be take too far, but it makes sense to me. "Despite me being in charge the sessions are client-led. He just doesn't know it." That's worth a few comments, I think. I find myself contradicting myself recently. That's because neither we nor our opinions are fixed, we should always be changing and challenging ourselves; "for always roaming with a hungry heart" (Tennyson, 'Ulysses') |
|
20-06-2013, 15:11 | #27 |
Member
Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 793
Reputation: 165
|
Under what circumstances, if any, should a sub request a particular activity?
|
20-06-2013, 16:56 | #28 | |
Member
Join Date: Sep 2009
Posts: 1,827
Reputation: 105
|
Quote:
Depending on the relationship between mistress and client, it could be during pre session chat, but this can be dicey. Never ever ever during!
__________________
"Never waste your time trying to explain who you are to people who are committed to misunderstanding you.” - Unknown The Anna List Medical Fetish Clinic - Extreme Breath Play, Realistic Medical Play Medical Mistress & Breathplay Specialist |
|
20-06-2013, 23:59 | #29 | |
Member
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: South East London
Posts: 732
Reputation: 112
|
Quote:
I don't think I'm ever in a play relationship where people ask for certain activities... that's just not the dynamics I choose. Before a session or inbetween sessions I will ask people what they've been thinking about or fantasising about - it's a two way thing and I'd be lying if I didn't say that gives me ideas. But a request for an activity? It's not ever going to happen - at least, not in such a crude way.
__________________
http://www.mistresssusannah.co.uk |
|
21-06-2013, 07:50 | #30 |
Member
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: World Wide
Posts: 1,614
Reputation: 26
|
I totally have some day's, that I don't feel like it.. I am human after all..
However, My morning breakfast ritual at My favourite cafe en route, the car journey, the preparation alters My state of mind and mood. This is a rare case I may add, however it is true to My feelings. Some individuals I am leaping to get My hands on, some individuals I am less so.. It's just life I guess.
__________________
Chastity Keyholder Sovereign |
|
|