UKM - Trolling and stalking - UK

Lisal · 06-10-2019, 14:33

Just been reading a domme's twitter account

She has been the subject of trolling and then r/l stalking for the last three years. It has now got to the stage where the two ladies who worked with her have had to stop for fear of their own safety

Makes me glad that herself doesn't advertise any more. We sometimes forget the perils these lovely ladies encounter!

jo nep · 07-10-2019, 07:36

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Originally Posted by Lisal

Just been reading a domme's twitter account

She has been the subject of trolling and then r/l stalking for the last three years. It has now got to the stage where the two ladies who worked with her have had to stop for fear of their own safety

Makes me glad that herself doesn't advertise any more. We sometimes forget the perils these lovely ladies encounter!

I suppose it depends on how open the PD is about their activities because this is a crime and I would hope that the police become involved. I appreciate this may be a problem both in the PD's personal freedom and possibly interference with her home life but it is still a crime and people in this professions have as much right to police intervention as any other decent law abiding citizen.

I know, its easier to say go to the police but ultimately this troller needs the full weight of the law against him, particularly due to the length of the offence.

Lisal · 07-10-2019, 09:43

From what I can see on the feed there is a case going on.

She's said she can't comment on some things because of that.

I do agree with your post jo

Lisal · 13-10-2019, 21:09

To add to this

She is now having to move and is selling much of her equipment/clothing. Turns out the stalker wrote to her neighbours to say she was running a sex business. I guess she wasn't that open, Jo

Sad and awful

geordiesouth · 14-10-2019, 09:08

Sad and awful indeed and one can only guess as to the intentions of those who stalk and lurk. Is it malicious or perhaps in some deluded way, they feel obliged to inform members of the public about dangerous perverts in close proximity.
A PD friend of mine had problems with a bothersome once upon a time client. She spoke to me about him and it was only that she perceived his actions as being exactly that, bothersome. That she had not felt the need to inform the authorities.
I advised her to do so as I felt it was only a matter of time before he became problematic rather than anything else.

Not to go into any detail, but this chap was spoken too.
What amazed me about the whole thing was this. Not only was he someone who had sessioned repeatedly with my friend and who seemed perfectly nice.
He was married with children and held a very good job.
So what was his intent ?

Nowt as funny as folk. That's for sure.

geordiesouth · 14-10-2019, 09:11

Sorry, I should have added to my last post the reasons behind me writing about this guy being a normal, happily married, children, pillar of the community sort of chap.
Its because I suspect most people would imagine stalkers to be exactly the opposite.
Skulking creatures who are alone, cannot form normal relationships etc.

Just as nilla folk would perceive pro doms to be sex workers I suppose.

Lisal · 14-10-2019, 10:57

This person is, apparently, part of the BDSM community. It all started online and escalated.

I don't know the full story but it sounds like they might have had a disagreement or he perceived she insulted him

In the end, though, three people out of work and a number of clients now lost. She provided specialist services and is highly thought of.

geordiesouth · 14-10-2019, 14:11

If this was a disagreement outside of BDSM it probably would have been dealt with differently.
Looks like a spiteful way to hurt and disrupt to me.

I am not on Twitter so do not have a clue who this is about so I shall keep me gob shut

Lisal · 14-10-2019, 14:43

I only look at a few twitter accounts for mistresses. And a couple of sports ones, too.

I am not going to say who it is here as I don't think that's right

It was more about what had happened and the vulnerability of people to this sort of thing

Bjorn Brimble · 14-10-2019, 21:36

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Originally Posted by geordiesouth

Just as nilla folk would perceive pro doms to be sex workers I suppose.

They'd be right to.

06-10-2019, 14:33	#1
Lisal Member Join Date: Sep 2014 Posts: 11,286 Reputation: 973	Trolling and stalking Just been reading a domme's twitter account She has been the subject of trolling and then r/l stalking for the last three years. It has now got to the stage where the two ladies who worked with her have had to stop for fear of their own safety Makes me glad that herself doesn't advertise any more. We sometimes forget the perils these lovely ladies encounter!

14-10-2019, 09:08	#5
geordiesouth Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 7,240 Reputation: 108	Sad and awful indeed and one can only guess as to the intentions of those who stalk and lurk. Is it malicious or perhaps in some deluded way, they feel obliged to inform members of the public about dangerous perverts in close proximity. A PD friend of mine had problems with a bothersome once upon a time client. She spoke to me about him and it was only that she perceived his actions as being exactly that, bothersome. That she had not felt the need to inform the authorities. I advised her to do so as I felt it was only a matter of time before he became problematic rather than anything else. Not to go into any detail, but this chap was spoken too. What amazed me about the whole thing was this. Not only was he someone who had sessioned repeatedly with my friend and who seemed perfectly nice. He was married with children and held a very good job. So what was his intent ? Nowt as funny as folk. That's for sure. __________________ A girls gotta have somewhere to park her bike.

14-10-2019, 09:11	#6
geordiesouth Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 7,240 Reputation: 108	Sorry, I should have added to my last post the reasons behind me writing about this guy being a normal, happily married, children, pillar of the community sort of chap. Its because I suspect most people would imagine stalkers to be exactly the opposite. Skulking creatures who are alone, cannot form normal relationships etc. Just as nilla folk would perceive pro doms to be sex workers I suppose. __________________ A girls gotta have somewhere to park her bike.

14-10-2019, 14:11	#8
geordiesouth Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 7,240 Reputation: 108	If this was a disagreement outside of BDSM it probably would have been dealt with differently. Looks like a spiteful way to hurt and disrupt to me. I am not on Twitter so do not have a clue who this is about so I shall keep me gob shut __________________ A girls gotta have somewhere to park her bike.

07-10-2019, 09:43	#3
Lisal Member Join Date: Sep 2014 Posts: 11,286 Reputation: 973	From what I can see on the feed there is a case going on. She's said she can't comment on some things because of that. I do agree with your post jo

13-10-2019, 21:09	#4
Lisal Member Join Date: Sep 2014 Posts: 11,286 Reputation: 973	To add to this She is now having to move and is selling much of her equipment/clothing. Turns out the stalker wrote to her neighbours to say she was running a sex business. I guess she wasn't that open, Jo Sad and awful

14-10-2019, 10:57	#7
Lisal Member Join Date: Sep 2014 Posts: 11,286 Reputation: 973	This person is, apparently, part of the BDSM community. It all started online and escalated. I don't know the full story but it sounds like they might have had a disagreement or he perceived she insulted him In the end, though, three people out of work and a number of clients now lost. She provided specialist services and is highly thought of.

14-10-2019, 14:43	#9
Lisal Member Join Date: Sep 2014 Posts: 11,286 Reputation: 973	I only look at a few twitter accounts for mistresses. And a couple of sports ones, too. I am not going to say who it is here as I don't think that's right It was more about what had happened and the vulnerability of people to this sort of thing