Sexual acts in a session

[Mistress Adore]

I have read about some Mistresses who are happy to perform sexual acts during sessions, how would you feel if a Mistress decided to perform one on you in your session ?
What about a session with your Mistress nude ?
I am not talking about those who are in a relationship with their Mistress but those who go to see someone for the first time ?
This is not my thing but each to their own, im just probing

Hi Mistress 888,

Doesnt that depend what "sexual acts" would mean to each individual ? I'm sure your description of sexual acts covers many areas in session in which one sub or Mistress would have various ideas on what this would or would not include etc.

To Me thats like asking how long is a piece of string. I guess we all have different definitions of what we may consider a "sexual act", what would be a sexual act for some may not be for others.

I'm sorry I havent answered your thread directly but its a little difficult to define sexual acts in session as I may well have a different take on what everyone else has.

Miss T x

As MT has said sexual act has a wide meaning, also there is a lot of personal preference and limits. Butt for the sake of discussion, most subs will accept either to be allowed by the Mistress to perform self HR or allow the Mistress to give them HR, some Mistress have performing HR on a client within Their limits others do not.

To go beyond subs HR starts to get really deep into personal choices of both what the sub is looking for and what a Mistress is willing to do, there is no right or no wrong butt it is about limits.

As for the Mistress being nude while She is clothed and the sub is naked this forms part of the power exchange, however i realise that most Women know where us men keep our brains and they also know where the on off switch is to our male brains so some Mistresses may use Her nudity or partial nudity as part of the torment ................... rotter's

First domme I ever saw (brilliant lady) was quite happy to have sexual acts performed upon her - and, likewise, was happy to perform them herself. It blew my mind as it was a whole new path of discovery for me

Once I'd been sessioning for a while - and had seen different dommes - I realised that this wasn't part of the deal for me. As I have said elsewhere I fully accept that it works for others - both domme and sub. Then I ended up in a couple of sessions with different dommes - one wanted me to perform a sexual act on her - and the other started giving me (ahem) a blow job

Neither worked for me.... and it's made me realise that for me a session works absolutely if I get sexual release by my own hand - and she enjoys herself - but not sexually

Having said all that - in the last session we were doing tie and tease - and boy I was getting close to release. I said that to her at the end and she asked me if I held back because it was her doing it not me. I said yes - and she then said she had no issues at all if I came when she was "doing it". Be interesting to see next time if can cum in that situation

And the more I think about this (as I have been doing recently - hey that's me) the more I understand that this is about the person I am with - not the acts themselves

ETA

Nudity wouldn't do it for me at all - either as a one off or in a longer term relationship. If nothing else clothed ismore sexy than naked (well for me anyway)

To add



I can certainly see that it can be a dominant act - forcing the sub to perform a sexual act for the dommes gratification - or the domme deciding that she wanted to give the sub a blow job - that's within her control

In those terms it would only work for me in a LTR - not as a one off as described in the OP

[bgx]

Whereas I would definately enjoy any sexual act performed on me during a session, I don't think that a sex act or a Mistress going nude is appropiate for a domination session. It could well be that the sub / Mistress are indulging in body worship then fine.

I am sure that Mistresses have lovely bodies but keep them clothed during sessions.

Originally Posted by Mistress 888

A blow job was the act i was talking about, i was just wondering how you (as a male sub) would react if your Mistress did this to you ?
Myself i see this more down the escort route but as we always say, each to their own.

Well first up she wouldn't



But the bottom line for me is that it would be her decision and if she wanted to do it (without reference to me) then I see that as a dominant act

I tend to struggle a bit with the escort/PD divide. I can see where it sits but, as Mistress Tabitha said, there is the definition of what is a sexual act To the man/woman in the street a guy giving himself relief following a PD session (in the chambers) would probably be seen as a sexual act and they would conclude that that person was seeing an escort

It's a horribly blurry line and, as you indicate, the key thing is that it works for both sides - whatever the labels attached

Originally Posted by Mistress888

I am not calling any Mistress who does choose to do either, it's just not for me

Yes - sorry I do get that..

[gutt]

Never understood why so many mistresses have topless pictures on their websites.

Having said that I have sessioned with more than one well known mistress who has stripped off during the course of the session. Guaranteed to raise the frustation factor. Some have required intimate body worship.

Have only had blow job once. Was in bondage and blindfolded and mistress summoned her female slave to do the deed.That was an ultimate humiliation - having o idea of the person who had done the deed.

[uc-ColiN]

I know one or two mistress's who do sexual things. But not in the same session.

You either see them for one of the other.

But it would be good to try it once, tied to a table, cling filmed up, mask on, anal play done and buzzing away, then you feel it... or did you...

Maybe i just fall in love to easy with a mistress, but i would try it and probaly enjoy it too.

If i was a mistress, i would not do it one hte 1st session, that would give the wrong ideas, but someone you have seen a few times, and you know would respond to it, i see it as another form of control as long as they are in control.

So, yes i would try it, and no, ive never had it.

ColiN