Links and resources

This page contains general links to sites with BDSM interest: club and party sites, equipment and clothing suppliers, fetish-friendly photographic services etc. Basically, anything good and kink-worthy that doesn't fit in one of our other listings of links. You might like to look first in the primary lists of pro-domme sites and scene-information sites. Links to BDSM pay sites is here

If you have a site you'd like listed, tell us about it: send email to webmaster.

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Banner for runs "toplists" of several kinds of BDSM sites: Mistresses' personal sites; gallery sites; directories; etc.

Beautiful but Damned

Kadett//car are "a London based company designing and hand crafting some of the finest quality leather fetish wear on the market including dildo harnesses, body harnesses for men, fetish club wear, padded cuffs, collars, and other restraint equipment."


If you are basically looking for information about the BDSM scene, rather than immediately seeking a Mistress, then the most extensive FAQ that we know of is that organised by the Usenet group soc.subculture.bondage.bdsm. You probably won't find a more comprehensive FAQ on the web. If you later go to the ssbb newsgroup, please make sure you read their charter before posting.

Iron Rose

For some of the best articles on various aspects of scene play, check out Iron Rose. The library contains excellent articles about such diverse topics as genitorture and breathplay as well as many others. This is one of those 'not to be missed' sites.

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The BDSM Directory contains hundreds of links to both UK and world-wide fetish sites, as well as resources and other info. Highly recommended.


Westons supply medical equipment to online buyers. If you are into medical scenes, this is the place to buy. Please bear in mind this is a vanilla, not a scene, company.

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An excellent link resource!


Another resource which we use constantly, and of which The Searcher is an accredited editor in both the BDSM Art and Domina Guide sections, is called FetBot. The site contains a wealth of information about BDSM and we highly recommend it.

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At Jane's Guide they index (by hand) all kinds of adult sites. Those sites which are reviewed and listed by Jane may be awarded the 'Jane says we're Quality' logo. This means the site you are looking at is good! Check it out, we promise you will not be disappointed! By the way, Jane's is totally free. Did we mention that Jane says we are quality?

Max Fisch

The best international resource is Max Fisch's Domina Guide. Updated regularly, Max's site contains lists of Mistresses in most countries of the world, including the UK, but with an emphasis on the USA. If you know of a UK Mistress listed in Max's pages but not yet on UKM please let us know.

BDSM Search

BDSM Search is a site which contains a wealth of information and resources about the scene, including links to other BDSM sites. The first time we went to this site, we browsed for an hour.

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The Femdom Directory list great sites with female domination, mistress, BDSM and femdom pictures, videos and other goodies. A great resource and well worth browsing.


A great site for resources and information is subDOMinion. You will find a multitude of useful and practical information here about the scene in general, as well as information about safety and medical issues within BDSM. subDOMinion is a membership site, but membership is free if you write respectfully to Mistress Ophelia. Highly recommended. .

Serious Mistresses

A site which contains details of many UK Mistresses, along with pictures, and deals with other BDSM issues, is Serious Mistresses.

Skin Two

Skin Two is the supplier of fetish clothing in the UK. Check out their site which is an absolute must for the fetish scene.


Punterlink is a site which contains many resources, both BDSM and vanilla. It is well worth browsing - you never know what you might find!

Another resource site which contains some good information is Well worth a visit.

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Held on the first Sunday of each Month, the LFF is one of the best places to buy scene and fetish clothing and equipment. The great thing about the LFF is thatit gives you a great chance to get a feel for the scene just by wandering round the stalls and talking to people. Well worth going to see.

Informed Consent

One of the top UK resources can be found at Informed Consent. Basically, this site contains virtually everything that you would ever want to know about the BDSM scene in the UK. IC also has a good contacts section which is well worth viewing.

Another contact site is, part ofAdult Friend Finder. carries loads ofpersonals, but is a pay service if you want the top of the range ads.


Punternet is a UK-based site which deals with the issue ofvanilla prostitution in the UK, and has both a message board and a 'Field Reports'system where 'punters' write FRs about the ladies they visit. The FR list contains information about several Mistresses.

Banner for is a photographic service specializing in fetish and glamour photography for web-sites.

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House of Harlot are makers of rubber fetish clothes, both bespoke and off-the-peg. They have retail premises in Holloway Road, London.

Absolute Danny

This fetish boutique is based in Amsterdam and, according to Playboy magazine, is one of the classiest and stylish establishments in Holland. You can mail-order fetish gear direct from their site.

Fettered Pleasures

A London based scene shop which sells all kinds ofscene equipment and clothing, including Folsom, DeMask and Dr Kaplan.

Cobra Whips

Alex the whipmaker can often be found at scene clubs demonstrating his wares.


This site features the most advanced male chastity devices available.

Dungeon Crafts

Manufacturers of high quality dungeon equipment.


A UK based company who specialise in TV/TS feminisation products.


The world-famous fetish outfitters, based in Amsterdam. Their site has an extensive catalogue, and mail ordering facilities.

Cathouse Clothing

All kinds of clothing and equipment, sold on line. UK based.