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Silk Fetishist
03-12-2009, 11:32
[Sidles onstage, peering around at the changed décor.]

UKM seems to have taken a leaf or two from IC's book in the matter of layout - and to good purpose, as far as I can see. The text is now more agreeable to the eye.

Has anyone missed me? (No, please ignore that question.) I've mostly avoided UKM since I blundered - that's the only way I can put it - into an unseemly public bust-up here with a Mistress whom I had previously found a most delightful and rewarding friend. Looking back, I can hardly blame her for reacting as she did, and I still have a great regard for her. My only quarrel with her now is that what she called my "bloody stupid(ity)" has been recognised by others, after plaguing me for much of my life, as a form of autism. Her academic background in psychology and neuroscience might in theory have given her a better understanding of someone like me. On the other hand, perhaps I also have been bloody stupid.

Anyway, the loss of her friendship had the effect of destroying for me, at least temporarily, all the interest and attraction of "the scene". But I must record a debt of gratitude to the one or two fellow-subs who, without taking sides, sent me sympathetic PMs on that occasion.

I'm happy to let the matter rest now, and may still be back. :)

stevebailey
03-12-2009, 12:47
Good to see you back...

Steve

Druid
03-12-2009, 13:44
Has anyone missed me?

Yeah, me.

And I've said as much in a couple of previous threads.

Welcome back, mate.

forest
03-12-2009, 14:08
I have only a vague idea of what might have happened, as I think I soon stopped reading one or two very protracted and confusing threads, but welcome back Silk Fetishist :)

Lisal
03-12-2009, 18:10
Just welcome back SF

:) :)

bgx
03-12-2009, 18:10
You been away ? UKM is still the same. Welcome back

:shooting::tumbleweed:

subtle
03-12-2009, 18:20
The best of luck, SF, and welcome back!

Edited to remove some waffle.

Gullane2
03-12-2009, 20:16
Welcome back, SF. I hope this is the first of many posts in the new UKM.

wealz
04-12-2009, 17:55
Anyway, the loss of her friendship had the effect of destroying for me, at least temporarily, all the interest and attraction of "the scene".

Been there too and know exactly what you mean but bounced back and you will too.

Good to see you back, I did the same and left the message board for a while but later realised that it was only me that was preventing myself from posting here.

It took a while to start again but I have had some really great sessions since and explored different aspects of BDSM which have been really enjoyable.

I rarely session now for completely different reasons but the interest is still there.

Looking forward to your contributions again.

Peter
04-12-2009, 23:52
I have no idea what you're talking about, Silk Fetishist, and I suspect that many others are the same. It's good to see you back.

ex nihilo
05-12-2009, 10:33
And a welcome back from Holmes :old_smile:

paulo
05-12-2009, 13:20
Welcome back from me also.

posh-sub
05-12-2009, 14:04
The spat with the mysterious Mistress passed me by.

But - after all - we do have a fair few spats here and they are usually sorted out in the end.

You have been missed. Welcome back!

Peace & Love
poshie

Lady Samantha
06-12-2009, 20:06
We saved a place on the sofa for you sf ;-)

Welcome back!