This is a little bit about me 🥰

[Mistress Angel1403]

I have been asked many times why and how I came into the lifestyle. So I thought I might as well do a note and share with you my journey and story.

It all started when I was 17 with my boyfriend at that time. We had been to a sex shop to get some toys and decided to pick one of the games up. For the life of me, I cannot remember what it was called lol. Fast forward to the evening. Had some drinks and then started to play the game. Picked a forfeit card and it said I needed to take a spanking. So I thought, why not let’s do it. You only live once so make the most of it while you can. If you done like it the first time, try 2 x more.

Well what can I say. That first slap on my bare arse was exhilarating. I realised that I did love a bit of pain, especially as it was making me horny as hell. He was going to stop so I told him harder. Oh boy did he go harder! Never in my wildest dreams did I think I would be able to orgasm through spanking. I thought, yes, I have found where I belong finally felt at home and comfortable with myself. We progressed to implements and discovered I loved to be caned. The pain and impact I craved. In the meantime I was switching and doing the same for my then partner. I realised that I loved both sides of the coin and always laughed when he moaned about it hurting.

Fast forward to when I was 21. That’s when things took a turn for the worse. As we all know, play needs to be consensual . He decided that consent didn’t matter anymore and ignore limits and safe words. Unfortunately it turned to abuse. From then on I vowed that no-one would go through what I did with my former partner / Dom amd left the lifestyle.

Shortly after I met my very vanilla husband and thought perhaps vanilla is the way to go after the experience I had.

As the years went by, I was craving my kink side more and more. I wanted to be the Domme that cared for their subs and would respect their limits and not cause any harm outside of their limits. Then came the conversation with my very vanilla husband. Trust me when I say this, it took at least a year for him to get his head around that I love this lifestyle. To this day. He still doesn’t get why I do it. As soon as I put black on he runs out the door 🤣🤣🤣.

I can honestly say I am proud of who I am and have become in our community. I live and breath this lifestyle with a passion. No way could I leave again. Vanilla life is not for me, I need my kink. I need to be able to train and teach my submissive’s. My priority are my subs. Their health and well being is my upmost priority. I do get to know them as a friend and not just as a sub. They need to know that they can talk to me about anything in their vanilla lives and not just as me being their Mistress.