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Old 04-02-2025, 18:34   #21
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You only need look at a subscription site like English Mansion to see there are some very good looking Dominatrixes out there.
Actresses and models or Dominatrixes ? The line is blurred now which I think is what Chris is getting at with this thread.

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Old 05-02-2025, 00:07   #22
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Actresses and models or Dominatrixes ? The line is blurred now which I think is what Chris is getting at with this thread.

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I think his point was more than the blurring of chosen vocation, but rather the accusation that 'most' actual Dommes were fat, middle-aged and ugly and not worth the tribute.

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But actual Dommes? Most listings seem to be overweight, or middle aged, or just rather non-stunning - esp for the price. And remember plenty of those pics are prob a few (or more) years old already!
And so, ladies and gentlemen of the Jury, I rest my case...
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Old 05-02-2025, 10:39   #23
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So I wonder what has happened?
Has femdomme got so mainstream that escorts realise they should and can effectively offer it?

Or do dommes just escort nowadays because they realise the "don't you dare accuse me of being a sex worker" line just doesn't hold any credibility.
Chris makes a fair observation here. A lot of what a traditional dominatrix offers is now incorporated into other ‘sex-worker’ or escort services. This is likely due to kink and BDSM being de-stigmatised over the years i.e. becoming mainstream as observed in the OP, and so there is no longer any virtue in an escort distancing herself from it, or charging extra to include it. The lines have indeed become blurred between the various aspects of sex-work; porn stars, escorts, prostitutes, dominatrices etc.

Of course, there is still a niche for services which require specialist equipment such as large items of BDSM equipment, breath play kit, expensive ‘milking parlour’ set-ups etc but a client is largely buying the ambiance here. Other ‘lighter’ services are often more suited to the domestic setting e.g. humiliation, sissy play, maid services etc. Hence, a domestic setting or brothel can cater for a significant amount of kink fun which then opens up the number of potential ladies a client has to choose from.

Go where your instincts and libido take you.

The most naturally authoritative woman I ever met was not a Dominatrix and had no desire to be classed as such. She didn’t have a dungeon, she didn’t have a web presence, and she didn’t have limiting definitions or ‘professional image’ to be concerned with, but what she did have was presence and passion and total assurance in herself. It was clear from early on that ‘vanilla’ sex was very much part of her intended play, as well as kisses from both her lips and her whip…as well as attention from her big strap-on which bobbed in front of her as she walked into the room looking so cute in her sexy lingerie beneath her modesty protecting chiffon robe ! When faced with that a chap gets on his knees when told to…”On the floor, now !!!”.

You pays your money and you takes your pick, so always advisable to walk the full length of the counter to see what is being offered elsewhere.

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Of course, there is still a niche for services which require specialist equipment such as large items of BDSM equipment, breath play kit, expensive ‘milking parlour’ set-ups etc but a client is largely buying the ambiance here.
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Not niche and a lot more than largely ambience (sp).

"the relaxed ambience of the dungeon, the dim lighting and peaceful music is popular with our subs." Not...
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I'm sure Mr Brimble (and any aliases) will have a pink fit at this post, but who cares.
Apparently so.

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No use wishing for the past. Time marches forward relentlessly and brings with it change. We adapt. If we don’t we just whine on that things should not alter.

I’m happy with my lightweight appearances into the fetish world. I even see a beautiful lady who has been seen on the EnglishMansion site. Occasionally that is.
Lovely lass.

I have to admit I seem to enjoy a lot more of the roleplay type sessions now rather than anything strongly thought of as BDSM play. Perhaps it’s my inner drama queen coming out.
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No use wishing for the past. Time marches forward relentlessly and brings with it change. We adapt. If we don’t we just whine on that things should not alter.

I’m happy with my lightweight appearances into the fetish world. I even see a beautiful lady who has been seen on the EnglishMansion site. Occasionally that is.
Lovely lass.

I have to admit I seem to enjoy a lot more of the roleplay type sessions now rather than anything strongly thought of as BDSM play. Perhaps it’s my inner drama queen coming out.
Indeed so. If ‘the scene’ has blurred into escort/prostitution work then we go with it or not at all. Hobson’s choice innit.

I still have the occasional desire for some heavy play which needs attention but am mostly content with the fun that can be had with handcuffs and a dining chair, and the meeting of two bedroom walls.

…and her wicked imagination does all the rest.

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No use wishing for the past. Time marches forward relentlessly and brings with it change. We adapt. If we don’t we just whine on that things should not alter.

I’m happy with my lightweight appearances into the fetish world. I even see a beautiful lady who has been seen on the EnglishMansion site. Occasionally that is.
Lovely lass.
That is indeed true.

In what some people call the ‘good old days,’ BDSM and fetish play had much social stigma attached to it. The days of phone box ads, contact mag listings and revolving doors. Very seedy. Homosexual practices were criminal. Celebs like the then single Jamie Theakston were lambasted in the gutter press for allegedly visiting a Mayfair ‘bondage brothel’. Then society evolved and became more progressive, less judgemental and much of the above became mainstream and part of everyday practice and discussion. After all, what consenting adults get up to behind closed doors and if it doesn’t harm anyone (physical and psychological) is a private matter and not for the tittle tattle of public consumption. The club scene also opened things up for open minded people.

Over time, the tenets of vanilla male/female, had to accept LGBT+, into its ambit.

And I’d say those English Mansion Dommes are on the attractive side….
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